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Disrupt the Death Care Industry

11/2/2016

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Change in the death care industry in the North America takes time and effort.  The topic is not an easy one to raise, even with our closest friends and family.  I recall when I began this journey, how I would shut down conversations by talking about the neat new shroud or burial pod or that cool woolen coffin I had just seen.  Needless to say, it took a few stunted conversations to teach me that not everyone finds this kind of thing interesting.  By the way those cool burial pod and woolen coffins are available in the UK.  We can get them here, but if you consider the cost of jet fuel – environmentally and expenditure wise, they really are not as green as options we make in our own back yard.  Sure they are great because they return to the earth, but local is better when choosing a natural or green burial.  We need only look at cremation to know that the industry can change to give us hope that death care industry  can be more responsive to consumers.
 
In 1958 the rate of those who chose cremation was 3.6%.  In 2015 the rate in the US was 48% - 63% in Canada.  Why the dramatic change?  North America is a culture of transient people.  We no longer are born and die in the same community.  Many of us have lived in a variety of places, making the “traditional” family plot something of the past.  In 1960, the price of the average funeral was $700.  That was still a steep price for the time - about $5000 today.  Today’s average cost of a “traditional” funeral is about $7000. We are paying more today for the same service. In ten states, citizens are required to hire the private death care industry funeral directors who can by law charge whatever they determine to be as a basic price before you add any services.  These costs of course do not cover burial.  That is another different story.   The point is that the death care industry increases costs, and people choose the lesser-priced option – cremation.  (Direct cremation can range from $500- $4000.)
 
What does all this say to those of us working to change the death care industry?  It tells us we can indeed change the industry.   Even the average citizen can help change the industry by shopping around, asking questions.  Know your rights, and stand by them. If a funeral director or a family service counselor tells you something is a law – have them show you the law.  If the funeral home of cemetery is not following the law or shading the law, contact the Funeral Consumers Alliance.  They know how to handle the death care industry when it does not treat the consumer right.  Use a death doula, even in states that require you to hire a funeral director.  Funeral directors might need to be hired, but you can still use the alternative death care industry.  Doing this will help forge relationships between the two sides of the industry.  Who knows what can come from people having to work together?  Make “nontraditional” choices in your plans.  If you must use a “traditional” cemetery and a vault, invert the vault and have a natural body.  All these little things disrupt thought.  Talk with our friends about your experiences with the industry and what you might have done differently that made all the difference. You might have to learn how to time these conversations, but people do want to talk about it because the current industry had done so much wrong.  Hire someone in the alternative death care industry, like the Midwest Green Burial Society, to speak to your community about your rights and death care options.  Make plans to have someone make your coffin or shroud. Once we make a step outside the box of “tradition” we might just find ourselves doing great things, changing minds and ultimately changing the industry as a whole.


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Lee Webster link
11/4/2016 05:31:39 am

The National Home Funeral Alliance is the go-to for all family-directed after-death care information, including directories to find experts in each state who know the laws and how to assist. Learn more at homefuneralalliance.org

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Caroline Vuyadinov link
11/4/2016 09:42:44 am

Thank you. I forgot to link the Home Funeral Alliance. I have fixed this.

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    Caroline Vuyadinov


    I graduated from St. Vladamir's Orthodox Theological Seminary in Crestwood, New York with a Master of Divinity.  I trained as a chaplain following graduation and worked with a wide variety of people. 

    When I moved to Canada, I began work in a women's halfway house in Hamilton, Ontario which worked with women in conflict with the law on a federal level.  I became the program manager and  loved working alongside the women, creating their plans for their reintegration back to the community.  I also worked as a liaison with the parole board, parole officers and other community service providers.

    Upon my return to the United States, I worked in the Death Care Industry as a Family Service Counselor, which lead me to become a green burial advocate. I co-founded Midwest Green Burial Society with Juliann Salinas. I speak  to community groups and have developed practical seminars for a variety of audiences.  I have been interviewed on a national podcast and was featured on a WGN spot dealing with green burial. 

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