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Why You Don't Want to Embalm

5/14/2014

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Before the Civil War and up until the early part of the twentieth century, we took care of the dead ourselves.  We washed them and dug their graves, or prepared their place among our own departed.  We gathered and buried them according to our own traditions.  The Civil War introduced our culture to the possibility of preserving our dead forever.  The process was new and expensive.  Embalming became the norm in the 1920s and 1930s when we became an industrialized urban centric nation.  We no longer had front rooms in our home to hold private wakes.  Funeral homes became the gathering centers for our wakes and funerals.  With funeral homes, came embalming.  Funeral directors were no longer the local cabinetmakers who helped out when someone died, but were now embalmers who promised us that our loved ones bodies might remain perfectly preserved forever.

Why would someone want his or her body preserved forever? Maybe this speaks to our broken hearts and allows us the think that our loved ones are not really gone, if somehow their bodies are preserved untouched in the grave.  Maybe we want to be remembered or have our loved ones remembered forever.  Maybe we all want to be like the pharaohs of old.  At any rate, embalming is not some romantic idea of being preserved forever, but a rough, unnecessary process of preparation of a body.

The process of embalming is not pretty.  The body is first washed, and prepared.  The jaw set, often by wiring it closed. Then the embalming fluid is injected into the body while the blood is drained from the body and flushed into the sewer system.  The internal organs are suctioned through a trocar and the abdominal cavity is treated with formaldehyde. I am reminded of when my father-in-law died and my husband asked if we had to embalm and the funeral director looked at him and said, “We aren’t Egyptians!”  Now I think they kind of are.  Embalming cannot be guaranteed for more than five days.  I know that often times the body can be preserved for longer, but no one can give a longer guarantee anyone this. 

The chemical make up of embalming fluid has changed.  Embalmers no longer use arsenic, but it is still very toxic not just to the ground water, but also embalmers themselves.  Funeral directors are at greater risk for certain types of cancer.  In many cases, funeral directors insist that embalming is a must for a viewing or traditional open casket. This is simply not true.  There are traditional ways to prepare a body, and then funeral homes could refrigerate the body until the funeral home.

I think that part of our overwhelming embalming impulse in this culture has everything to do with the fear of our own mortality.  If we can face the truth of our mortal nature, maybe we can embrace the nature of death.  If we face our own death, maybe we can see that in death we can be kind to the earth and love the nature of our own being.  In death, we can offer the nature of our bodies to the earth, and nurture that which has nurtured us.

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A Greener Funreal link
5/14/2014 05:05:02 am

Excellent article! Thank you, thank you, thank you.

Typo: "emblam"?

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Caroline Vuyadinov
5/14/2014 06:29:43 am

Thank you for catching the typo.

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Nancy Manahan link
3/20/2015 05:09:14 am

Excellent information. Is there a word or two missing from this sentence: "The internal organs are removed through and then the abdominal cavity is treated with formaldehyde" ? I am a founder of the Minnesota Threshold Network, which supports conscious dying, family-led after-death care, and natural burials.

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Michael Ray link
3/25/2015 02:18:01 am

Great article.

"I think that part of our overwhelming embalming impulse in this culture has everything to do with the fear of our own mortality."

This may be true, however, there is also a HUGE public misconception that embalming is required by law. Most people don't take the time to plan ahead or research funeral options and are stuck at the last minute going along with what has been the norm for the past century. Planning for death isn't going to put your loved one in the grave any quicker - but I realize it is a very uncomfortable subject for most people.

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    Caroline Vuyadinov


    I graduated from St. Vladamir's Orthodox Theological Seminary in Crestwood, New York with a Master of Divinity.  I trained as a chaplain following graduation and worked with a wide variety of people. 

    When I moved to Canada, I began work in a women's halfway house in Hamilton, Ontario which worked with women in conflict with the law on a federal level.  I became the program manager and  loved working alongside the women, creating their plans for their reintegration back to the community.  I also worked as a liaison with the parole board, parole officers and other community service providers.

    Upon my return to the United States, I worked in the Death Care Industry as a Family Service Counselor, which lead me to become a green burial advocate. I co-founded Midwest Green Burial Society with Juliann Salinas. I speak  to community groups and have developed practical seminars for a variety of audiences.  I have been interviewed on a national podcast and was featured on a WGN spot dealing with green burial. 

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